It is time to find home. Within.
When everything looks beautiful from the outside… but something still feels off
Maybe you know this feeling: From the outside, your life is actually quite beautiful, and yet something within feels… off.
As if you're not fully home and something’s just so deeply missing.
A quiet void within, and over the years you have already noticed that no achievement, no relationship, no change of scenery seems to fill it. It just keeps on being there.
My own search for belonging
There was a chapter in my life where I felt deeply lost. I didn’t know where I belonged, and I felt quite lonely, even when surrounded by people close to me. So I went searching. I tried out different career paths. I dove into big philosophies of the world. I connected with different cultures and traditions. All in the hope of filling the deep hole I felt within.
The questions that changed everything
I remember, during this search, a dear friend of mine responded to my quest with the simple words:
"What do you even want to belong to?"
At the time, my ego was screaming inside: "What? Don’t you see how lonely it can be?"
Only years later was I in a position to grasp the depth of her response.
(Hint: It becomes interesting when you ask your Self : who is it that so desperately wants to belong?)
A little later, during a retreat, one of the facilitators came up to me and gently said:
“Find home within your Heart.”
Back then, my ego was wondering whether that would mean being alone forever.
Wouldn’t turning inward contradict my desire to feel connection and belonging?
The moment that mirrored it all
But it was a moment months later that really mirrored it all back to me.
I had just come back from a trip to South America. It had been full of magic, connection, people I resonated with.
Yet the moment I stepped back into my home, the emptiness returned.
I stood in my own kitchen, surrounded by everything I thought I wanted… and still, the old scream of “this is not enough” got so loud.
That moment cracked something open in me.
If even the most aligned outer experience couldn’t sustain the feeling of being home, I was looking in the wrong place.
The illusion of lack and the ego’s well-meaning trap
Truth is:
True belonging doesn’t come from the “right” community, a new city, or a different job.
It comes from you sitting with yourself.
That deep ache of not being understood, not belonging, not being met — the craving to be seen, heard, held…
That, dear Soul, is your ego screaming for attention.
It is a programme built on one big illusion: the illusion of separation and lack.
The ego is convinced:
“Your life, yet especially you, just as you are, are simply not enough.”
So it searches for what will fill this void.
It tells you that once you’re more successful, more clear, more in the “right” place, you’ll feel whole.
It blames the city. The partner. The job. The weather.
It waits for the perfect timing, the perfect plan, the perfect star alignment, and until then, it wants you to stay stuck. To postpone. To not fully land. Because in its opinion, this moment here and now cannot simply be enough, right?
And so, it even sabotages the beauty already present in your life,
because it secretly believes that you don’t deserve ease. Not yet.
But Truth is: the programming of the ego is predictable. We can learn how it is coded and begin to detect its patterns with clarity.
And once you see through it, you can meet it with Love.
Because all it ever wanted was to keep you safe.
What if you stopped outsourcing your sense of home?
So then, in moments like these, when the longing (for connection, for belonging, for safety...) arises, you can pause and ask yourself:
“Where am I outsourcing my sense of safety, connection, or belonging?”
And through a deeper connection with your Self, you’ll discover:
Home was never out there. It lives right in your Heart.
What changed everything for me
So what shifted everything for me?
It was returning to my Heart, activating the connection with it,
and choosing to walk Life from there.
There is another way of moving through this world, not from the perspective of lack or separation, but through the Loving wisdom of your Heart.
What the Heart makes possible
Here’s what I got to experience:
The Consciousness of your Heart is the only true power that can move you out of these sticky, repetitive patterns for good.
If you’ve ever felt caught in the Spiral of Life, circling back to the same fears again and again, this is the path that breaks the loop.The Heart is the lens through which you can Lovingly meet all parts of your Self, even the ego.
And in that Light, they no longer need to hide or prove themselves.
They can simply be. They can come home.
All the parts of you that felt wrong - the ones tied to shame, guilt, or lack - can rest in the warm presence of your Heart.
And from that Loving Awareness, they slowly release the tight grip they once had on your Life.
And this is how you step back into the flow of Life.The Consciousness of your Heart carries a Truth that goes far beyond opinion or preference.
It is rooted in universal Knowing, and gently dissolves every illusion your mind once believed.
It allows you to feel at home within, no matter where you are in the world.
No matter the circumstances. No matter who surrounds you, even if they live by different values or see the world differently than you.
This is what I came to understand, standing in my kitchen after the most aligned trip of my life.
Even then, the feeling of home was missing, until I turned inward and remembered where it had been all along.The wisdom of your Heart is always here.
Quiet. Clear. Fiercely gentle.
Guiding you through every test and challenge, not as obstacles, but as invitations to return to your Self.
Your sensitivity is not your weakness — it is your portal
And with this current Cancer season, here is something else to Know when it comes to your emotions and connecting back with your Heart:
Your capacity to feel emotions deeply is actually a very potent portal for you to step through. That sensitivity that you sometimes judge is a superpower, because it allows you to connect with energy — which in the end just wants to naturally flow.
Once you learn how to meet your emotions through your Heart, you can remain open and allow this potent lifeforce energy to move freely through you.
This is exactly what it takes to open up to Love.
Not the fleeting kind, but the Love that lives in your cells and wants to pour through every part of you.
And once you learn how to anchor deeply, you become a vessel for this Loving energy to move through you, naturally and effortlessly.
You stop fighting your emotional waves.
You stop questioning your depth.
Because you begin to see: emotions are not disruptions.
They are part of your cleansing. Part of your remembering.
And in meeting them, you return to Love.
From this place, you radiate
From there, you radiate.
From there, your warmth touches others.
From there, the world feels your presence, and you Consciously Create all these magical Creations right through your open Heart.
Your own medicine that pours effortlessly through you - through your art, your events, your words, your presence, your way of Being.
We are being called into a new way
It is an interesting time in which we are living; a time in which more and more people feel a deep nudge within.
A whisper that says: there must be another way.
A Knowing that meeting anger with anger won’t create the shift they long for.
And so, another approach begins to rise:
Meeting Life through the Heart.
Albert Einstein put it so precisely:
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.”
This is the Consciousness of your own radiant, magnetic, powerful Heart.
And you feel it.
You are here to live from it.
To see Life through the eyes of your Heart.
And from there, to Create all the beauty you already know is possible.
The invitation
As of September, we walk The Path of the Heart.
To learn what it truly means to connect with this wisdom inside your Heart,
and experience unshakable belonging, connection, and Trust from within.
Applications open end of July.
And I cannot wait to watch you unfold and radiate!